Which One Are You?

The way I see it, when it comes to ending relationships, a person will act either of two ways:

There is the girl who humbles herself, latches onto a relationship fiercely until she is let go, dredges the bottom until she can no longer find any scraps or semblance of what she used to love. This girl will hang on until she is at the point of humiliation. At the end of the day, when the relationship finally falls apart, she is content in knowing there was nothing else she could have done to save it. She thinks this will give her less of a reason to look back and regret.

And then there's the girl who recoils at the first sign of trouble. She will withdraw faster than he has a chance to prove her wrong. She'd rather be the one who rejects than the one rejected. She covers her bases quickly, and shuts out any possibility of being embarrassed or offended. She'd rather have her pride intact than the truth, with all its potentially gory details.

There are pros and cons to being one or the other.

So which one do you think I'll be? You'll be?

from: http://www.candymag.com/katie/2007/05/15/which-one-are-you/

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